The (New And Improved) Loving Dominant
“Without full, knowing consent, relationships are in immediate danger of becoming brutal exploitative affairs without beauty or elegance.
Consent can vary from the very specific (“You can do this, this and this, but not that”) to a simple knowing acceptance (“I trust that you will do nothing to harm me”). However, it must be constantly present and mutually respected within the relationship.
You don’t have to say exactly what you mean Safewords are central to consent in BDSM. Using these phrases ...permits the submissive to withdraw consent to a particular activity or terminate the scene at any point without endangering the illusion that the dominant is in complete control.
An acceptable safeword can be “no” or “stop.” All that is required is that it be clearly understood as an unequivocal signal that there is a problem and the submissive wants to stop. One of my favorites is “Stop what you are doing right now or when I get loose I’ll rip your balls (tits) off and shove them down your throat.”MoreLess
Consent can vary from the very specific (“You can do this, this and this, but not that”) to a simple knowing acceptance (“I trust that you will do nothing to harm me”). However, it must be constantly present and mutually respected within the relationship.
You don’t have to say exactly what you mean Safewords are central to consent in BDSM. Using these phrases ...permits the submissive to withdraw consent to a particular activity or terminate the scene at any point without endangering the illusion that the dominant is in complete control.
An acceptable safeword can be “no” or “stop.” All that is required is that it be clearly understood as an unequivocal signal that there is a problem and the submissive wants to stop. One of my favorites is “Stop what you are doing right now or when I get loose I’ll rip your balls (tits) off and shove them down your throat.”MoreLess
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